tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5877872196122597956.post2067716920354401001..comments2024-02-14T14:47:58.061-08:00Comments on Word Salad: This Was Supposed to Be a Different PostColeslawhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06813319585807128092noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5877872196122597956.post-91270234983046773582012-08-20T09:23:15.300-07:002012-08-20T09:23:15.300-07:00I think that there are probably different degrees ...I think that there are probably different degrees of what people find stalking or controlling, though. Yes, if a guy locks you in the house without access to a phone, that's controlling, but from what I've read, some women are okay with not doing girl's nights out or wearing certain kinds of clothes if their husband objects, whereas I would find that problematical. I'm okay with my husband telling me he doesn't think something looks good on me and then leaving it up to me whether to wear it, though, and I think other women may not even like that.<br /><br />Also, is it stalking if a man you barely know puts effort into finding out your phone number and calling? Some women might find it romantic (IF they were attracted to the man), but others might find it creepy. Some might find it romantic and later on find out they should have found it creepy.<br /><br />So when I said we each had our own list, I meant at a more detailed level than "no stalking, no controlling, don't hurt us", but I agree with you on that.Coleslawhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06813319585807128092noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5877872196122597956.post-78467348920673049112012-08-20T07:44:15.103-07:002012-08-20T07:44:15.103-07:00I can think of a few things, but they're all a...I can think of a few things, but they're all anti-sexism: I think most women wish men knew that controlling or stalking behavior isn't romantic, that we really know what we're talking about as often as they do, and so forth. <br /><br />But the gift styles or communication styles or whatever...yeah, everyone's different there. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com